Join us for our cozy flea market! A chance to clear out your closet, pass along tools that no longer serve you, or find the perfect gear for your next kinky adventure.
The flea market is also a great chance to just be inspired about what to wear at our more playful events.

This workshop invites you to discover your authentic voice—one that speaks truth with kindness and listens with an open heart. Together we'll explore the art of compassionate communication: expressing ourselves honestly, setting healthy boundaries, and meeting others with empathy and presence.

Ready to own your confidence and unleash your dominant side? Stepping into your power as a dominant is an ongoing journey, and this workshop will help you tap into that journey with ease.

Dive into the marvellous world of flogging - a tool with a history of corporal punishment but also a revered instrument in the kink toolbox for going deep into a sadomasochist dynamic, and everything from lighter sensation play to heavy impact sessions. 

Step into a night where the body leads, the senses awaken, and connection becomes a delicious, living thing. This is an invitation to slow down, to breathe, and to let touch speak louder than words. It’s a space for meeting others skin-to-skin, heart-to-heart — where curiosity, sensation, and intimacy intertwine.

The quality of our presence and attention determines the quality of our dominance, our submission, our intimacy, and ultimately our capacity to create meaningful experiences together. Without presence, power becomes performance or actions without depth. With presence, even the smallest gesture can become profoundly erotic.

For one afternoon and evening, we slow everything down and pay attention.

Part of the KNEEL series for couples.

This workshop is a part of the New Manhood Series.
This workshop is an invitation to explore the relationship between your inner world and the energy you bring into your encounters with others. Through movement, reflection, and shared experiences, we'll become curious about the qualities we embody when we meet another human being—whether at a social gathering, on a first date, in the supermarket, or in everyday life.

A dating event for everyone who does not identify with heteronormative ideas of dating! Online Dating can be a drag, endless swiping, short-lived excitement and the sense of being just an object instead of a real human. Softer Dating is the alternative to online dating where you’ll get to slow down, take a breath and meet others in a cute and embodied way

Rituals of Mystery is a series of three immersive rituals for couples who want to actively nurture intimacy and rediscover each other; through play, presence, polarity and conscious kink.
This first ritual is an invitation to drop the narrative and meet your partner with fresh eyes. Through movement, eye contact, breath and playful exercises, we'll explore how contrast, tension and distance can reignite the charge between you. You'll practice the art of holding space between you, not to separate, but to let attraction build

The belief that we are not good enough can quietly shape how we relate to ourselves and others.
In this workshop, we will explore how this identity lives in the body and how we can recognise when it has been activated.

This is where the four-part journey begins: with the relationship to our own value.

This workshop is an invitation to deepen your relationship with anger—not as something to suppress or unleash, but as a powerful expression of truth. Together, we'll explore what becomes possible when we stop asking how to get rid of our anger and begin listening to the wisdom it carries.

In this workshop series experienced Japanese Rope Bondage teacher Jac Fabian teaches some of his favourite dynamic ties.

Gyaku Ebi is a relatively simple to tie with a stunning result, and invites a balance between devotion and limitation - searching for the beauty of unmasked emotional expression.

We will dynamically transform the Gyaku Ebi into a Scorpion, yet another exquisite tie and position.  

Grief, when shared, can become a bridge to healing. In this tender and supportive circle, we'll explore the many faces of loss—personal, ancestral, and collective—making space for sorrow to move, soften, and transform

Discover how to touch the vulva in a way that supports pleasure, trust, and emotional intimacy – without pressure to “perform” or reach a goal. This beginner-friendly couples workshop starts with grounding and connection practices, then moves into clear consent and communication tools so you can stay present while giving or receiving.

Devotion is one of the deepest pleasures within power exchange. It is the desire to offer your attention, discipline, body, effort, beauty, endurance, service, or suffering to someone whose deviant pleasures genuinely matter to you. The satisfaction of anticipating a need before it is spoken. The pride of doing something well enough to deserve appreciation. The quiet joy of becoming indispensable.

Part of the KNEEL series for couples.

This workshop is an invitation to gently loosen shame's grip and rediscover the freedom that has been there all along. Not by fighting ourselves or forcing change, but by meeting what we've hidden with curiosity, compassion, and courage.

The second workshop in the four-part Building Safer Attachment series.
In this workshop, we will explore rejection as a doorway into emotional maturity.

Learning to handle rejection does not mean becoming numb or pretending that we do not care. It means building the capacity to remain with ourselves when we are not chosen, when someone does not want the same thing, or when the answer is simply no

A gentle, guided space to explore clitoral sensation at your own pace. Through slow self-touch, soft self-de-armouring and clear consent cues, you’ll map pleasure, numbness, tension and subtle sensation without pressure to perform or “succeed.” Ideal if you rely on intense stimulation, feel disconnected from softer pleasure, or simply want to deepen trust, sensitivity and connection with your vulva.

In this workshop we practice ways of communicating explicitly what we're experiencing during various erotic exchanges. This opens up doors to deeper understanding of each other's experiences, and to being able to play in new and interesting directions, responding directly to what is happening in real time. Learning methods to communicate while we’re playing can help us to go for what we find sexy or sparks curiosity, and it can help us to touch in with our embodied desires.

Are you curious about House of Play?

Come by and we’ll happily answer all of your questions about the community, what we do and what it’s like to join our activities.
Free for all, but you need to sign up.

Discover how to touch the penis in a way that supports pleasure, trust, and emotional intimacy – without pressure to “perform” or reach a goal. This beginner-friendly couples workshop starts with grounding and connection practices, then moves into clear consent and communication tools so you can stay present while giving or receiving.

Rituals of Mystery is a series of three immersive rituals for couples who want to actively nurture intimacy and rediscover each other; through play, presence, polarity and conscious kink.

In this ritual we explore what unfolds when we tap into presence and let go of ideas around what we like and don’t like.

Inspired equally by English tea culture, competitive baking shows and BDSM protocol, submissives are invited to bring a cake prepared especially for the occasion.

Throughout the afternoon, submissives will serve tea and cake, attend to their dominants and help maintain the elegance of the salon. Dominants are invited to direct, observe and evaluate: offering precise praise, thoughtful correction and perhaps the occasional note for improvement.

Part of the KNEEL series for couples.

Whether returning or joining for the first time, grief often has many layers and many parts of our hearts and souls can grieve. This workshop is an invitation to deepen your relationship with grief. Not as something to overcome or rush through, but as a natural expression of love and the many ways our lives are touched by change, loss, and longing.

In this workshop series experienced Japanese Rope Bondage teacher Jac Fabian teaches some of his favourite dynamic ties.

This classic Japanese tie locks in the legs with an intricate pattern but unfolds the upper body by creating a beautiful arc of the back. We will be moving the position in the air creating different expressions and torsion

Anger is a natural human emotion, yet many of us have learned to fear it, suppress it, or express it in ways that leave us feeling disconnected from ourselves and others. In this workshop, we'll create a welcoming space to explore our relationship with anger through curiosity, compassion, and care.

The third workshop in the four-part Building Safer Attachment series.
Falling in love can feel intoxicating. We feel alive, open, excited, and connected. At the same time, it can quickly take over. We begin imagining a future, reading meaning into every interaction, or feeling that this person is the answer to something we have been longing for.

What would it be like to stay conscious inside that experience?

Rather than focusing on techniques or toys, we investigate the architecture of power exchange. How do we create anticipation before the first command is given? How do we establish trust while maintaining uncertainty? When do we slow down? When do we intensify? How do we build emotional and erotic tension? And how do we bring a scene to a close in a way that leaves both partners feeling transformed rather than exhausted?

Part of the KNEEL series, but this one is not a couples event.

Rituals of Mystery is a series of three immersive rituals for couples who want to actively nurture intimacy and rediscover each other; through play, presence, polarity and conscious kink.

This ritual is a gentle, consent-forward introduction to different types of play: role-play, power play, dominance and submission.

Step into a night where the body leads, the senses awaken, and connection becomes a delicious, living thing. This is an invitation to slow down, to breathe, and to let touch speak louder than words. It’s a space for meeting others skin-to-skin, heart-to-heart — where curiosity, sensation, and intimacy intertwine.

We invite you to another round of Softer Dating, this time for ages 40+!
This is for you, if you are ready to explore new ways of being in connection beyond the regular small-talk.

The fourth workshop in the four-part Building Safer Attachment series.
Safer attachment in kink is connected to our ability to enter closeness and intensity while remaining in contact with ourselves.

We will explore how sexual desire can become connected to younger needs for safety, attention, surrender, control, approval, or relief. A kink may be a real and playful adult desire, while also touching something from our emotional history. Both can be true.

A gentle, guided space to explore your G-spot (urethral sponge) at your own pace. Through slow self-touch, soft self-de-armouring and clear consent cues, you’ll map sensation, numbness and tension without pressure to perform or “succeed.” Ideal if you’re curious about internal pleasure, feel confused by the “I need to pee” feeling, or simply want to deepen trust with your vulva.

Threesomes, Foursomes, MOREsomes! with LIVE Demos is a playful, explicit, practical workshop for people who want to understand how to create hotter, kinder, better-organized multi-person pleasure.

This is an in-person, interactive class with teaching, questions, LIVE demonstrations, and a Show ’N Tell Then Try structure.

Energetic Sex for Pragmatists is an invitation to explore the world of energetic sex without needing to believe in anything you do not believe in.

We will look at breath, presence, attention, arousal, resonance, body awareness, and the strange and wonderful ways bodies can respond when pleasure has more room to move.

In this workshop series experienced Japanese Rope Bondage teacher Jac Fabian teaches some of his favourite dynamic ties.

This classic Japanese tie is great for exposure and erotic play, and easily expanded to create various revealing expressions. We will add a simple but complete transition into another beautiful position, that is more demanding and inviting a more emotional play. 

Many people discover D/s through intensity. But what often sustains a dynamic over months and years is not the extraordinary. It is the ordinary. Or rather insisting on seeing the possibility of extraordinary moments in ordinary life. 

This afternoon explores how power exchange can move beyond scenes and become a way of relating.

Not as a performance or constant role-play, but as a conscious practice that gently colours everyday life.

Part of the KNEEL series for couples.

Are you curious about House of Play?

Come by and we’ll happily answer all of your questions about the community, what we do and what it’s like to join our activities.
Free for all, but you need to sign up.