House of Play is excited to once again offer 2 different workshops and talks with world renowned sex educator Reid Mihalko, founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp. Known for his inspiring blend of humor, personal stories, keen insights, and comprehensive sexual health knowledge, Reid’s 20-year career is filled with workshops, experiences, and teaching frameworks that have influenced culture and the sex and intimacy fields.
Threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes can sound glamorous from the outside.
More bodies.
More hands.
More mouths.
More desire.
More possibility.
And also?
More logistics.
More feelings.
More angles.
More opportunities for someone to feel left out, confused, overwhelmed, or unsure where to put their elbow.
Group sex is not just “regular sex with extra people.”
It asks for more awareness. More communication. More pacing. More inclusion. More humor. More ability to pause, adjust, ask, offer, receive, and recover when things get awkward.
And things will get awkward.
That does not mean you are doing it wrong.
It means you are human.
Threesomes, Foursomes, MOREsomes! with LIVE Demos is a playful, explicit, practical workshop for people who want to understand how to create hotter, kinder, better-organized multi-person pleasure.
This is an in-person, interactive class with teaching, questions, LIVE demonstrations, and a Show ’N Tell Then Try structure.
During the LIVE demos, Reid Mihalko will demonstrate techniques, positions, communication tools, and group-sex logistics with enthusiastically consenting demo partners. These demonstrations may range from fully clothed to explicit in nature, depending on timing, consent, demo partner capacity, and what the room can hold.
After the demonstration portions, attendees will be invited into optional practice exercises. Participation may range from fully clothed communication and positioning practice to more explicit exploration, depending on each person’s boundaries, desires, agreements, and consent.
No one is obligated to do the hands-on practicum portion of the workshop.
Voyeurism is participation. Watching is participation. Taking notes is participation. Asking questions is participation. Laughing, learning, and saying “no thank you” are all welcome.
All exercises are invitations. You may adjust any exercise in whatever way helps you take care of yourself, honor your boundaries, respect other people’s boundaries, and stay connected to consent and care.
You may choose to stay fully clothed.
You may choose to observe.
You may choose to practice only with your partner(s).
You may choose to negotiate with others.
You may choose to step out of an exercise at any time.
This workshop may include:
Advanced ergonomic positions and body adjustments for pleasing more than one person
Ways to help everyone feel included, wanted, and attended to
How to track the arousal and comfort of multiple people at the same time
How to make requests without sounding like a traffic controller in a sexy pile-up
Blackbelt applications of Reid’s Embrace the Awkward Formula
Advanced techniques for receiving pleasure from more than one person
Sex toy applications specifically for threesomes and group play
How to negotiate desire, safer sex, touch, boundaries, and pacing before bodies get tangled
How to recover when something gets awkward, funny, vulnerable, or logistically confusing
Depending on timing, consent, demo partner capacity, and what the room can hold, possible LIVE demos may include:
Oral techniques that combine two mouths, such as the Flippity-Flop and the Flying Squirrel
Advanced hand techniques for pleasuring more than one person
Ways to use multiple hands on one body with more coordination and care
Strap-on, toy, and penetration logistics for group play
Positioning skills for threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes
Communication, negotiation, and feedback during real-time erotic play
How to help everyone stay included, aroused, safer, and more able to ask for what they really want
Not every possible demo is guaranteed. All demonstrations depend on the consent, readiness, and boundaries of the demo partners, the facilitator, and the container of the room.
This class is for people who have had more threesomes than they can count, as well as for people who are just beginning to imagine what three-in-a-bed might feel like.
The goal is not to become perfect at group sex.
The goal is to become more skilled, more compassionate, more clear, more playful & creative, and more able to create experiences where everyone matters.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This workshop is for adults of all genders, orientations, bodies, and relationship styles who are curious about threesomes, foursomes, group sex, multi-partner pleasure, and the communication skills that make them work better.
It is for you if you:
Are curious about group sex but want more tools before diving in
Are already experienced and want more technique, structure, and language
Want to learn how to include multiple people without losing track of anyone
Want better tools for negotiation, safer sex, pacing, and feedback
Are part of a couple, throuple, polycule, or constellation exploring more people
Identify as a unicorn, unicorn-hunter, swinger, slut, sex geek, kinky person, or curious beginner
Want to learn through LIVE demos, humor, clarity, and consent-forward practice
Want to make group pleasure feel less confusing and more connected
This workshop is not for you if you are looking for guaranteed partners, a cruising space, or a place where people are expected to be sexually available.
It is also not for you if you are unwilling to respect boundaries, privacy, safer sex agreements, and other people’s no.
CAN I JOIN AS A BEGINNER?
Yes.
Beginners are welcome.
You do not need to have had a threesome or group sex before attending. You do need to be willing to talk about sex, bodies, desire, boundaries, safer sex, and erotic logistics in a clear and respectful way.
Because the LIVE demos and optional practice may range from fully clothed to explicit, beginners should be willing to be in a room where nudity, genital touch, oral sex, penetration techniques, group-sex positioning, and erotic communication may be discussed, demonstrated, or explored.
All exercises are invitations and can be adjusted.
DO I NEED A PARTNER?
No.
You can come alone, in pairs, or as a group.
For the LIVE demo portions, you may watch, ask questions, and learn.
For the Show ’N Tell Then Try portions, you may be invited to practice communication, negotiation, positioning, touch, and group-play skills with others. Participation may range from fully clothed to explicit, according to your boundaries, desires, agreements, and consent.
You may also choose to work only with your partner(s), if that feels right for you, or to watch and take notes.
No one is required to touch, be touched, partner up, undress, or participate in an exercise they do not want to do.
DRESSCODE
Wear something comfortable that you can sit, move, negotiate, and practice in.
Think soft layers, sexy-but-moveable clothing, yoga clothes, dance clothes, or anything that lets you sit, kneel, lean, and reposition comfortably.
We encourage you to dress up and wear something that helps you feel good about yourself and ready to learn!
WHAT TO BRING
Bring a notebook, pen, water bottle, and your curiosity.
You may also want to bring questions about threesomes, foursomes, group sex, safer sex logistics, unicorns, jealousy, awkwardness, positioning, toys, or how to ask for what you want when there is more than one person in the room.
TIMES
19:00–22:00
Doors close at 19:00, you cannot arrive after this time.
Doors open 30 minutes before for you to land comfortably in the space.
TICKETS
280 kr for members
350 kr for non-members
We offer a 20% discount to students and low income. Discounts cannot be used on top of other discounts. Please reach out to info@houseofplay.dk
Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee here
CODE OF CONDUCT
Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct
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ABOUT THE FACILITATOR
As featured on NETFLIX’s Chelsea Does… alongside Chelsea Handler, and HBO’s Sex Diaries,Reid Mihalko (he/him) ofReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known American queer, polyamorous educator, speaker, and proud slut working in the sex and relationship education field.
Reid’s mission is to help adults access more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives. Known for his inspiring blend of humor, personal stories, keen insights, and comprehensive sexual health knowledge, Reid’s 20-year career is filled with workshops, experiences, and teaching frameworks that have influenced culture and the sex and intimacy fields.
To date, Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 80,000+ people from all over the globe. His teaching and communication frameworks such as The Difficult Conversation Formula, Safer Sex Elevator Speech, and Reid’s Casual Sex Protocols are regularly recommended by therapists, educators, podcasters, and life coaches around the globe.
Reid has appeared in media such as Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, HBO, Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.
In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly, and links and info can be found atReidAboutSex.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.
Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.
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