Inner Fluidity: A Journey Towards pleasurable Sovereignty
One reason many people struggle to relax in intimacy or explore the deeper worlds of pleasure is that we have learned to see pleasure as something we receive from others.
When pleasure is experienced this way, we easily become dependent. We begin to dream about, fantasize about, and search for the right person who can give us the experience we long for. We focus on what they should give us, love us, look like, or meet us. When we meet people from this place it’s also difficult to let them go even if the relationship ended or we dismiss new dates easily thinking “the next one is the right one”
But something shifts when we learn that pleasure in its root, is generated from within.
This doesn’t mean that sharing pleasure with others becomes less meaningful. Quite the opposite. It simply means that we are no longer waiting for someone else to create an experience for us. We begin to recognize pleasure as something alive inside our own bodies, something we can listen to, cultivate, and take responsibility for.
Another shift happens when we question the ways we have been taught to express energy through gender.
What if “masculine” and “feminine” are not fixed roles, but just like yin and yang - energy that can move in many directions? We can be soft, hard, lead, follow, penetrate, receive, hold, surrender, and express ourselves in ways that go far beyond our bodies’ shapes and societies ideas about gender.
In this full-day workshop, Li and Marcos invite you into an exploration of sexual sovereignty and inner fluidity.
Through dance, movement, reflection, relational exercises, and embodied practices, we will explore how pleasure moves through the body, how conditioning shapes our expression, and what becomes possible when we allow more of ourselves to come alive.
This workshop is part of the Grow Up work by Li Tadaa, supported by Marcos Bina and invites people of all genders and sexualities to start the journey of uncoupling childhood needs from our romantic and sexual desires to practice a more mature relating.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This is for you who long for awakening your pleasure from within as a way to feel more confident and less dependent or needy on other. A place to move beyond binary norms and explore your full potential of self sourced pleasure. Open for all gender and sexualities.
CAN I JOIN AS A BEGINNER?
Yes you can, however take into account that this work may awaken fears and emotions in the body so a basic capacity to self regulate and tend to your needs is necessary.
DO I NEED A PARTNER?
No - You may come with one (or more) but you can expect a lot of group exercises.
DRESSCODE
Comfy for dance and movement.
TIMES
Doors open at 10.30, so you can be early and land softly before we start.
Doors close and we start at 11.00, no late entry.
We end at 18.00
TICKETS
600 kr for members
750 kr for non-members
We offer a 20% discount to students and low income. Discounts cannot be used on top of other discounts. Please reach out to info@houseofplay.dk
Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee here
CODE OF CONDUCT
Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct
🌶️🌶️ of 4 - This is a clothes on workshop with main focus on movement and our own energies. but there will be softer touch and dancing with sexual energy.
Read more about our chili system here: https://www.houseofplay.dk/chili-system.
ABOUT THE FACILITATORS
Li Tadaa
Somatic Practitioner (SEP) & Dance Therapist specialized in attachment and conscious relating.
Li Tadaa is a renowned workshop leader in Europe, a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, a dancer, and a Lust Coach with more than 15 years of experience in movement and embodiment.
Li’s knowledge of dance and routes to pleasure from traditions around the globe is combined with an understanding of the nervous system, dance therapy, somatic trauma healing, shamanism, and meditation practices.
Through her Grow Up & Dance Into Your Lust programs, Li has helped over a thousand people reconnect with their inner safety, pleasure, and adult selves.
Read more about Li at www.litadaa.com and follow her on Insta @li.tadaa
Marcos Bina
Facilitator and Bodyworker
The main tool Marcos Bina uses at his individual sessions, workshops, and retreats is LOVE. Through loving and compassionate guidance, he will lead you to connect back to your body and to feel your emotions again. His personal mantra is “Love is a way, not a destination”.
As a fluid man, sexuality was always a focus in Marcos’s personal and professional studies. One of his purposes in life is to help men reconnect with their emotions since 2021, Marcos has been leading the course and retreat for men called Travessia. More than 250 men who want to live a healthy masculinity have already attended it. Marcos Bina is a graduate therapist at Tantra, ThetaHealing, Feldenkrais, and Quantum Being, besides being an Engineer and Administrator.
Find out more about Marcos