THE KNEEL SERIES
Deeper into the Landscapes of Power
For Couples
The moment someone kneels. The moment someone chooses to lead. The supercharged space between authority and submission, trust and uncertainty, longing and fulfilment.
KNEEL is a series of six immersive workshops, rituals, dinners, and social experiences for COUPLES who are curious about exploring power exchange as more than a dynamic. As a practice. As serious play. As a way of cultivating presence, intimacy, and conscious connection.
How do we deepen this journey into the wonderful polarity of power? Not just by taking even more control. Not just by being even better at all the tools and techniques. Not just by daring to give more of ourselves.
We will explore how to go deeper into polarity and expand those magical and erotic encounters of power. And also how these moments can reveal something profound about how we relate to ourselves, to one another, and to the forces that shape our lives.
The Six events
The Kneeling and the Seated
Dinner with Servants (Sept 4)
Presence; The Currency of Power Exchange
Workshop and Play Night (Sept 19)
Devotion; The Thrill of Offering. The Charge of Receiving
Workshop and Play Night (Oct 17)
Cake & Canes
The Great Submission Bake-Off (Nov 1)
The Art of Designing a Scene
Workshop (Nov 14)
Everyday D/s as a Practice
Workshop (Dec 6)
You participate as a couple where one takes the dominant role and one the submissive role in each event.
As an exception, The Art of Designing a Scene is not a couples event - it is for those interested in the dominating side of power.
Facilitators
Anso Vela’s (she/her) current artistic work develops spaces where power, intimacy and desire can be explored with awareness and intention. She creates immersive formats that function as laboratories for surrender, authority, trust and responsibility, engaging BDSM as both artistic language and relational inquiry.
Anso was a main presenter at Eurix Berlin 2025 and Xplore Berlin 2026.
Alongside this work, her curatorial practice operates across larger cultural frameworks, shaping international collaborations and platforms that examine how art and culture can influence perception, contribute to structural change, and foster connectedness in a fragmented world.
Jac Fabian (he/him) is an experienced rope bondage and kink practitioner who’s been teaching and facilitating BDSM for more than a decade. His focus is the meeting point of perversion, power dynamics, aesthetics, group facilitation and co-creation processes, artistic experimentation, and consciousness. He is the founder and director of House of Play in Copenhagen.
Jac was a main presenter at Eurix Berlin 2025 and Xplore Berlin 2026 and has performed in Tokyo, at The Danish Royal Theatre and many other kink and art venues.
