House of Play is excited to offer 3 different workshops and talks with world renowned sex educator Reid Mihalko, founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp. Known for his inspiring blend of humor, personal stories, keen insights, and comprehensive sexual health knowledge, Reid’s 20-year career is filled with workshops, experiences, and teaching frameworks that have influenced culture and the sex and intimacy fields.
Many of us who love kink, tantra, BDSM, group play, toys, power exchange, and big erotic adventures know how easy it is to chase the next shiny thing.
A new skill. A new toy. A more advanced scene. A more complicated position. A bigger group. A more intense experience.
And those things can be wonderful. But chasing "peak experiences" can become its own rut, and we end up missing the small, nuanced techniques -- the ones that leave your lovers speechless because they're so simple, so powerful, and were hiding in plain sight the whole time!
Don't skip over the foundational skills that make your peak experiences better, more explosive, more integrated.
And when do we get to see LIVE demos of how the foundational skills turbocharge the peak experiences?
When do we get to learn things like:
How to generate massive pleasure with a flaccid penis and how to properly stimulate a clitoris that is extremely sensitive.
How to pleasure two bodies at once, possibly helping everyone orgasm at the same time!
How to use your hands, mouth, hips, breath, pace, pressure, and attention with more skill.
How to make a partner feel seen, wanted, safer, and more turned on.
The foundations are not boring. They stack on top of each other and can be used in combinations to generate advanced techniques.
They ground the peaks. They are where the magic lives.
Great bondage & impact play gets better when you know how to read breath, tension, arousal, and body language.
Great tantra gets better when you can communicate desire, limits, and sensation clearly.
Great group sex gets better when everyone knows how to ask, offer, adjust, and stay connected.
And great “regular” sex? It can become extraordinary when we stop guessing and start learning the little things that make the biggest difference.
Sex Education with LIVE Demos is an evening of playful, practical, explicit, Show ’N Tell adult education.
Reid Mihalko will teach, answer questions, share stories, and demonstrate explicit techniques LIVE in real time with enthusiastically consenting demo partners. The audience remains fully clothed and is invited to watch, learn, laugh, blush, ask questions, and even request demonstrations they are curious or brave enough to ask for.
This is not a play party.This is not a touch workshop for participants.This is not a space where audience members are asked to undress, touch, or practice with one another.
It is a chance to slow down, anchor, and integrate the skills most people never get shown.
Depending on timing, consent, demo partner capacity, and what the room can hold, possible LIVE demos may include:
Reid’s infamous “Flying Squirrel” technique for scrotums
Fingering and squirting techniques
Deep-throating skills focused on breath, pacing, comfort, and communication
The Flippity-Flop: two mouths on one cock
Strap-on and pegging skills
Reid’s Naughty Vampire cunnilingus move
Advanced group sex maneuvers
Better communication, negotiation, and feedback during real-time erotic play
Small adjustments in angle, rhythm, pressure, positioning, and pacing that can make BIG differences in pleasure, comfort, sensation, and stamina
Not every possible demo is guaranteed. All demonstrations depend on the consent, readiness, and boundaries of the demo partners, the facilitator, and the container of the room.
This evening is about making the invisible visible.
How do skilled lovers adjust when something is not working?How do they turn “that feels good” into “ohhh, YES, keep doing that”?How do they navigate an awkward moment without shame?How do they make advanced play feel more grounded, connected, and delicious?
The aim is not performance.
The aim is education.
To laugh.To learn.To reduce shame.To make the awkward less awkward.To give advanced players stronger foundations.To make the skills underneath great sex visible.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This event is for adults of all genders, orientations, bodies, and relationship styles who want practical, shame-free, explicit sex education in an observing format.
It is especially for people who already love, or are curious about, kink, BDSM, tantra, group play, and adventurous sex — and who want the foundations underneath those experiences to become stronger, clearer, and more confident.
It is for you if you:
Want your sexual skills to match your adventurous imagination
Are curious about pleasure, bodies, touch, communication, and technique
Learn well by watching demonstrations
Want more language for asking, offering, adjusting, and giving feedback
Want to understand how skilled sexual communication happens in real time
Are curious about oral sex, fingering, squirting, deep-throating, strap-on play, pegging, group sex dynamics, or advanced pleasure skills
Want sex education that is playful, human, funny, explicit, and consent-forward
Want to be in a space where awkward, brave, nerdy, and explicit questions are welcome
This event is not for you if you are looking for a play party, audience participation, cruising space, or guaranteed erotic experience.
It is also not for you if you are unable to respect the privacy, boundaries, and humanity of the demo partners.
CAN I JOIN AS A BEGINNER?
Yes.
Beginners are welcome. This is a teaching-focused space, and the audience is not expected to participate in any physical exercises.
You are welcome to watch, listen, ask questions, laugh, blush, take notes, and learn at your own pace.
Because the LIVE demos may be explicit, beginners should be willing to be in a room where sexual anatomy, sexual techniques, nudity, genital touch, oral sex, penetration, and erotic communication may be discussed or demonstrated clearly.
DO I NEED A PARTNER?
No.
You can come alone, in pairs, or as a group. This is an observing workshop. Audience members remain clothed and will not be asked to touch, undress, or practice with other attendees.
DRESSCODE
Wear something comfortable that you can sit in and enjoy the evening in.
The audience remains clothed for the entire workshop.
WHAT TO BRING
Bring a notebook, pen, water bottle, and your curiosity.
You are also welcome to bring questions you have always wanted to ask a sex educator but never had the chance to ask.
TIMES
Saturday, 25 July 202619:00–22:00
Doors close at 19:00, you cannot arrive after this time.
Doors open 30 minutes before for you to land comfortably in the space.
TICKETS
280 kr for members
350 kr for non-members
(If you buy both Hookups Without Heartaches and The art of Pressure Play, you can write to us for a 50% discount on Sex Education with Live Demos)
We offer a 20% discount to students and low income. Discounts cannot be used on top of other discounts. Please reach out to info@houseofplay.dk
Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee here
CODE OF CONDUCT
Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct
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🌶️ CHILI DISCLAIMER: This workshop does not fit neatly into the chili system, as the audience remains fully clothed and does not engage in touch or practice. However, some of the LIVE demonstrations will be explicit and may include nudity, genital touch, oral sex, penetration techniques, strap-on play, squirting techniques, and advanced group sex maneuvers. Enjoy being a bit turned on and flirty while you learn from watching, but not immediately getting to try your new knowledge and skills until you get home!
Read more about our chili system here
ABOUT THE FACILITATOR
As featured on NETFLIX’s Chelsea Does… alongside Chelsea Handler, and HBO’s Sex Diaries,Reid Mihalko (he/him) ofReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known American queer, polyamorous educator, speaker, and proud slut working in the sex and relationship education field.
Reid’s mission is to help adults access more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives. Known for his inspiring blend of humor, personal stories, keen insights, and comprehensive sexual health knowledge, Reid’s 20-year career is filled with workshops, experiences, and teaching frameworks that have influenced culture and the sex and intimacy fields.
To date, Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 80,000+ people from all over the globe. His teaching and communication frameworks such as The Difficult Conversation Formula, Safer Sex Elevator Speech, and Reid’s Casual Sex Protocols are regularly recommended by therapists, educators, podcasters, and life coaches around the globe.
Reid has appeared in media such as Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, HBO, Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.
In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly, and links and info can be found atReidAboutSex.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.
Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.
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