SWEET RELEASE – Holistic Pathways to Squirting
A couples workshop about safety, connection & letting the body lead
This is a trauma-aware, pleasure-positive workshop for couples who are curious about female ejaculation (“squirting”) in a grounded, respectful way – where pleasure leads and performance doesn’t. For some people it can feel like a delicious release, a deepening of arousal, or simply a new kind of softness and freedom in the body. And for many, the biggest win is learning how to listen, communicate, and build turn-on without pressure.
Because squirting is sometimes portrayed in forceful, pressuring ways, we name this clearly: nothing is forced here. You’re always in choice. You can pause, opt out, modify, or step outside at any time. This workshop centers boundaries, pacing, and respect for your nervous system.
“Squirting” is also often misunderstood – either glamorized as a performance goal, or dismissed as “just forcing pee.” In reality, it’s more nuanced and body-specific. It isn’t something to prove. It can be a response that may emerge when arousal, safety, touch, breath, and the nervous system are working together. So our focus is not on “making it happen at all costs,” but on exploring what becomes possible when pressure is taken off and the body gets to lead. Think: more turn-on, more “mmm,” more curiosity – and maybe, sometimes, more fluidity.
You’ll receive clear teaching, a demonstration, and guided hands-on practice – while staying inside your own private bubble (no partner-swapping). Facilitators will be available for verbal support and questions.
Letting the body lead
Many people with vulvas may have the capacity for ejaculation under supportive conditions – but bodies vary, and this is not a “make it happen” workshop. We can’t guarantee whether squirting will happen on the day.
What we can offer is a grounded, trauma-aware space where boundaries are respected and communication is central – and where you’ll learn tools you can keep exploring at home.
In this workshop you’ll:
learn the basics of anatomy, arousal, and ejaculatory fluids
practice relaxing and tuning in around the G-spot / pelvic area
build a clear consent + feedback language (yes / no / slower / more / pause / stop)
explore touch and arousal with pacing, choice, and consent
leave with concrete practices for your own time, in your own way
Here, success is not defined by whether ejaculation happens.
Success means:
staying connected
respecting every “no”
creating conditions where a real “yes” can emerge
WHO IS THIS FOR
This workshop is for couples who want to explore squirting in a conscious, consent‑based way.
It may be especially relevant if you:
Have never experienced squirting;
Have had it happen once “by accident”;
Already know it, but want more ease, safety, and understanding;
Want to get better at listening, pacing, and responding to the body;
Have had experiences with pressure or force around squirting, and now want to rebuild safety, soften tension, and let your body set the pace.
This workshop is not for people looking for a performance, a show, or a guarantee.
It is for people who want to learn, communicate, and discover together.
Practical note: This is a partnered workshop for any gender constellation where one partner has a vulva.
CAN I JOIN ALONE?
No. This is a partnered workshop, designed for two people to explore together. You’re welcome to bring any trusted partner (romantic partners, lovers, friends,...) as long as you both feel safe and enthusiastic to participate.
DRESS CODE
Wear something that helps you feel comfortable, safe, and connected to your body – and/or something that makes you feel playful or sexy.
WHAT TO BRING
Body‑friendly oil or lube to support comfort and sensation.
Water bottle with lid.
Towels or blankets (e.g., sheep skin, sarong, fleece blanket, yoga mat) to create your intentional, cozy space to lay on.
Optional: an extra blanket if you wish to be (partially) naked and get cold.
Your personal squirting sheet is highly recommended. Contact Anke if you’d like some recommendations.
Bring a journal & pen.
Optional: Any toys you might like to use – glass wand, dildo, vibrator, …
TIME AND PLACE
Thursday, 18 June 2026 from 19.00 to 22.00.
Please note: no late entry once the workshop begins – arriving early helps you land, you’re welcome as early as 18.30.
TICKETS
480,- DKK per couple for members
600,- DKK per couple for non‑members
Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee here.
CODE OF CONDUCT
Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct.
CHILIES
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ (4 / 4)
This is a fully sex inclusive space within your own couple bubble. Various forms of sensual/sexual/intimate expression may take place. Nudity allowed.
Read more about our chili system here.
Your Facilitator
Anke Van Mullem (she/her)
Anke is a Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Coach and the founder of Soul’n Soma. With years of hands‑on experience and a deeply personal healing journey, she’s passionate about helping individuals and couples build authentic, meaningful connections. Drawing from the wisdom of ancient and neo-Tantra and Taoism, alongside modern mindfulness and body‑based practices, Anke creates a warm, safe space for exploration, healing, and growth. Empowering women and people with vulvas is at the heart of her work, particularly through her transformative Jade Egg practice and Awakening Pleasure series, both online and at House of Play.
Your Spaceholders
Nico Simonsen (he/him)
Nico is Anke’s chosen life partner and will be holding space for this workshop, as well as offering his hands only for the demo part. With a background in tantra, he’s comfortable navigating sex-positive spaces and brings a calm, respectful presence. He will assist in creating a safe, supportive container where participants can explore, learn, and feel at ease.
Teodora Gosheva/ Teddy (she/her)
Teddy is a certified Sexologist and Relationship Therapist and creator of Luvitude – who supports individuals and couples in building healthier intimate connections. Her work centers on subcultures and minorities – queer clients, sex workers, and intercultural relationships – and she specializes in sex-positive practice, BDSM, kink, and fetish. In this workshop, she will assist as a spaceholder, supporting safety, presence, and integration.