Discover how to touch the penis in a way that supports pleasure, trust, and emotional intimacy – without pressure to “perform” or reach a goal. This beginner-friendly couples workshop starts with grounding and connection practices, then moves into clear consent and communication tools so you can stay present while giving or receiving.
From this resourced place, you will be guided into hands-only touch of the penis, with attention to pacing, choice, and ongoing consent. Many people have never been given the space to discover what kind of touch truly feels right for them – so this workshop is an invitation to get curious. Climax isn’t the goal. Instead, you’ll practice listening to the body, noticing preferences and boundaries, and voicing adjustments in the moment, so touch becomes a shared experience that feels connected, clear, and at ease.
The main exercises happen within your own private couple bubble. The penis owner will need to be partially undressed for the practice; nudity beyond that is optional and always your choice.
You can find the second edition of Conscious Erotic Touch here: Vulva Pleasure & Connection.
WHO IS THIS FOR
This Is for You If…
you’re joining as a pair and at least one partner has a penis
you want an alternative approach to erotic touch that focuses on presence and feeling rather than chasing climax and/or “doing it right”.
you’re curious to build confidence, attunement, and communication during intimate touch
you want a holistic approach that starts with grounding, and connection – and builds step-by-step into touch
you appreciate structure and guided practice (beginner-friendly)
This Is Not for You If…
your focus is only on climax
you’re only joining to “get a massage” and you’re not interested in the communication, consent, and connection practices that come first
you’re not comfortable with erotic content in a sex-inclusive space (within your own couple bubble)
you’re not able to participate as a pair (this is not a solo workshop)
CAN I JOIN ALONE?
No. This is a partnered workshop, designed for two people to explore together. You’re welcome to bring any trusted partner (romantic partners, lovers, friends,...) as long as you both feel safe and enthusiastic to participate.
DRESS CODE
Wear something that helps you feel comfortable, safe, and connected to your body.
And/or something that makes you feel playful or sexy.
WHAT TO BRING
Body‑friendly oil or lube to support comfort and sensation.
Water bottle with lid.
Towels or blankets to create your intentional, cozy space to lay on. You might want to bring an extra blanket to cover yourself with if you wish to be (partially) naked.
Bring a journal & pen.
Your curious self.
TIME AND PLACE
Wednesday, 29 April 2026 from 19.00 to 22.00.
Please note: no late entry once the workshop begins – arriving early helps you land, you’re welcome as early as 18.30.
TICKETS
480,- DKK per couple for members
600,- DKK per couple for non‑members
Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee here.
CODE OF CONDUCT
Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct.
CHILIES
🌶️🌶️🌶️ (3 / 4)
This is a sex inclusive space within your own couple bubble. Nudity allowed.
Read more about our chili system here.
Your Facilitator
Anke Van Mullem (she/her)
Anke is a Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Coach and the founder of Soul’n Soma. With years of hands‑on experience and a deeply personal healing journey, she’s passionate about helping individuals and couples build authentic, meaningful connections. Drawing from the wisdom of ancient and neo-Tantra and Taoism, alongside modern mindfulness and body‑based practices, Anke creates a warm, safe space for exploration, healing, and growth. Empowering women and people with vulvas is at the heart of her work, particularly through her transformative Jade Egg practice and Awakening Pleasure series, both online and at House of Play.
Your Spaceholder
Teodora Gosheva/ Teddy (she/her)
Teddy is a certified Sexologist and Relationship Therapist and creator of Luvitude – who supports individuals and couples in building healthier intimate connections. Her work centers on subcultures and minorities – queer clients, sex workers, and intercultural relationships – and she specializes in sex-positive practice, BDSM, kink, and fetish. In this workshop, she will assist as a spaceholder, supporting safety, presence, and integration.