A three‑part journey to soften, sense, and reclaim vulva pleasure through slow, guided self‑touch in community.
Welcome to the Awakening Pleasure Series
In many bodies, pleasure and pain have become over‑coupled – layers of tension, emotion, and unspoken stories sit between sensation and satisfaction. Across three monthly evenings we will gently unwind those layers through self de‑armouring, somatic boundary work, and the healing alchemy of group resonance.
Come to one session that calls you, or weave the full arc for deeper integration. Each workshop stands alone yet can be seen as an extension of the previous.
AWAKENING PLEASURE: A Journey of Clitoral Awakening – 22/Sept
AWAKENING PLEASURE: By Opening the Gate – 20/Oct
Often in life we have to rush so much, and we can even feel discomfort when we finally slow down. In these gatherings we intentionally move at the pace of the body, meeting any unease that arises. The aim is to reconnect with the vulva (one focused theme at a time) through slow presence and plenty of space.
Session 2 – Opening the Gate (Vaginal Opening)
Do you notice tightness, burning, or a guarded sensation at the gateway to your vagina?
The vaginal opening often stores memories of boundaries crossed or rushed penetration.
This session focuses on …
Softening the vaginal opening – the threshold between outer and inner world. We explore boundary‑honouring touch to release the first ring of tension, invite deeper ease, and restore the gateway as a place of trust and welcome.
PRACTICALITIES
WHAT TO EXPECT
Key Benefits: Softened gateway (vaginal opening), reduced discomfort, increased readiness for pleasurable insertion, and a stronger sense of agency.
Hands‑On Exploration: Step‑by‑step self de‑armouring techniques with real‑time guidance.
Group Resonance: Practise side‑by‑side, normalising intimate self‑care and celebrating boundaries.
WHO IS THIS FOR
Vulva owners ready to explore sensuality and sensitivity in a communal setting. You feel at ease practising self‑touch alongside others and can self‑regulate emotionally; the facilitator will guide but this is a self‑development space, not therapy.
No experience in de-armouring required.
Health & Safety – Participation is not suitable if you are pregnant, have active infections or outbreaks, severe unresolved psychological trauma, psychosis, or serious physical illness. When in doubt, reach out.
DRESS CODE
Wear something comfortable that makes you feel safe and/or sensual.
If you’d prefer extra coverage, a dress or skirt that allows easy access without exposing too much is recommended.
WHAT TO BRING
Body‑friendly oil or lube to enhance your experience.
Water bottle with lid.
Towels or blankets (e.g., sheep skin, sarong, fleece blanket, yoga mat) to create your intentional, cozy space to lay on. You might want to bring an extra additional blanket to cover yourself with if you wish to be (partially) naked.
Feel free to bring a journal & pen.
Optional: Blindfold for deeper inward focus.
If you wish, bring a small mirror to visually meet the gateway as you work.
TIME AND PLACE
Monday, 20 October from 19.00 to 22.00.
Please note that we begin on time, and you'll not be able to enter after the event begins; better to be early than late.
House of Play, Shetlandsgade 3, 1st floor, 2300 Copenhagen
TICKETS
300 DKK per person, non-members
240 DKK per person, 20%-discount member price
Bundle Offer: Get 20% off when booking all three sessions (864,- kr for members, 1080,- kr for non-members). To book the bundle, please email us at info@houseofplay.dk.
Tickets are personal and non-refundable.
Read our full terms and conditions here
LEVEL: Beginners or experienced looking for guided practices.
CHILIES
🌶️🌶️🌶️: 3 of 4 – Nudity allowed; self-touch only – optional shallow insertion with fingers.
Read more about our chili system here.
Your facilitator
Anke Van Mullem (she/her)
Anke is a Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Coach and the founder of Soul’n Soma. With years of hands‑on experience and a deeply personal healing journey, she’s passionate about helping individuals and couples build authentic, meaningful connections. Drawing from the wisdom of ancient Tantra and Taoism, alongside modern mindfulness and body‑based practices, Anke creates a warm, safe space for exploration, healing, and growth. Empowering women and people with vulvas is at the heart of her work, particularly through her transformative Jade Egg practice and guided self‑de‑armouring.