Dress Code Guide

Our dress code isn’t about rules – it’s about co-creating the atmosphere.

On some of our events, such as Play Parties we have a dresscode. This is not because we believe in the best dressed or in spending a lot of money on things you don’t need - but because we believe that when participants put an effort into contributing to the collective vibe, we all benefit.

Below we have made a small guide, and attached a few photos for your inspiration.

Dress up (or down)

It can be vulnerable to dress up (or down) and if we all give our vulnerability to the space, rather than just hide behind our everyday clothing, taking in the views of the others, we can all co-create the space we share together by making it magical - something separate from our everyday lives.

We encourage you to find your own personal expression but here we have offered some suggestions, that might inspire you.

Inspiration

  • Textures: leather, latex, mesh, lace, faux fur, feathers, velvet, vinyl, silk, sequins, spandex and other tight-fitting or flowing fabrics.

  • Accessories: masks, harnesses, cuffs, body paint, glow, glitter.

  • Colors: anything bold - animal prints, black & red, metallic, neon, or earthy tones.

Outfit Examples

  • Harness + cheeky briefs / jockstrap / tight shorts.

  • Lingerie set + mesh robe / kimono + fishnets + cuffs, collar or bold mask.

  • Loose open shirt + leather pants / kilt / sarong.

  • Light spandex dress or two-piece + one statement accessory (chains, metallic cuffs, glowing makeup).

  • Tights + bare chest or nipple covers + bold accessory (mask, collar, cuffs).

  • Latex/spandex (cat)suit + harness or corset + thigh-high stockings.

Where can I find this?

Shops

  • DMasque 

  • Homoware

  • L for Love 

  • Glimmer fra ecosparkles

Vintage shops

  • Prag

  • Episode

  • Wasteland

  • Decades

  • Crush vintage

  • Humana

  • Vinted (online)

Inspirational gallery:

Photos are of House of Play participants taken for House of Play by: Mads Høbye, Marie Louise Herløvsen, Elisabeth Friis, Joosep Kõivistik and Line Deela