What if the part of you you’ve been avoiding… held the key to your sexual liberation?
We often enter play spaces unconsciously reproducing what we feel comfortable with – without ever asking: “What part of myself do I actually consciously want to explore, reveal or unfold?“
What parts of you do you usually leave outside the room when you say: "I just go with the flow” or “I’ll know what I want when I see it”
What desires, patterns, identities, alter-egos or impulses do you secretly judge, reject – or fear might be "too much/too little?
We want to explore what breaking the fawn, owning your hunger, and allowing more of yourself looks like.
What happens when you make an active choice?
Instead of adjusting who you think you need to be in order to be chosen.
Are you ready to not settle?
This night is different.
It’s about turning your patterns into personas, and your personas into empowerment.
We want to experiment with you. We want to give you time and space to let that inner Ice Queen move freely. We want to explore how things might shift when your Needy Self takes the lead. Just for a moment, imagine how it would feel to show up as the Monster, the Tease, the Slob, the Predator, or the Innocent child—not to perform or please, but to truly listen and let that part breathe.
“Leave your expectations at the door” they say…
Here, we say:
Bring them. Name them. Choose them.
And then watch them come alive. Or nothing at all…
WHAT TO EXPECT
We’re starting deep – looking into the mirror of potential and honestly opening up the corners of yourself to those parts we often leave behind when entering a Play Space. Through solo, partner, and group explorations of parts work and embodiment practises, we give these aspects a personality, a voice and a body to move in, connecting with yourself and the other participants in the space.
As the evening unfolds we will set the scene for you to enter an intentional, braver Play Space as your chosen part, committing to stay with it throughout the evening because it ignites something in you to allow yourself to expand beyond your habits and feel ready to move out of comfort and into a curious exploration of what unfolds when you fully embody it. The play space will be inspired by intentional spaces created by the likes of Felix Ruckert.
You won’t know what will happen.
Neither will we.
And that’s the point.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This is for the curious, the courageous, the edge-walkers and self-inquirers.
For anyone who senses there's more to their erotic or emotional expression than they’ve allowed.
You don’t need to have a big breakthrough or a perfect plan – you just need a willingness to meet yourself honestly.
The day is open to all genders, bodies, sexual orientations and partner constellations. We operate in a sex- and emotional-inclusive space, where various forms of sensual and sexual expression are welcome, provided that everyone involved consents.
CAN I JOIN AS A BEGINNER?
No, to join you need to have some prior experience navigating sex-inclusive spaces and self-development spaces. You need experience in holding and regulating your own emotions and triggers in a group. If you’re in doubt, please consider it as a no. This is not a therapeutic space.
DO I NEED A PARTNER?
You do not need a partner to join.
Every exercise is an invitation to explore, not a demand. The exercises are often practical, physical, and hands-on. To provide a wide variety of experiences, we frequently invite you to do exercises in different combinations with different people. These can be same-gender or mixed-gender, and we encourage you to be open to working with any gender and person during the exercises since it is our experience that this gives the best possibilities for collective co-creation and flow.
DRESSCODE
Wear something comfortable that you can move around freely in for the daytime portion.
For the evening, we invite you to dress in a way that supports the part of you you’ll be exploring. Bring different options, you never know what part of you might show up.
This can be subtle, symbolic, or expressive – whatever helps you drop into that aspect.
No streetwear, please.
WHAT TO BRING
Notebook + pen
Water bottle
Comfortable clothes for movement
A costume or item that helps evoke the part of you you're exploring (optional, but encouraged)
(Bring several expressions, you never know what part wants to unfold)An open mind – and something you're curious to meet within yourself
TIMES
September 6, 2025
Doors open 13:30
Doors close: 14:00
We begin together – please arrive on time to support the shared container. If you are late you will not be permitted into the space.We end together at 23:30
TICKETS
760 kr for members
900 kr for non-members
Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee.
CODE OF CONDUCT
Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct.
CHILLIE
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Read more about our chili system here.
ABOUT THE FACILITATORS
Gabrielle (she/they)
is a certified trauma-informed facilitator, educator, practitioner and performer in the Copenhagen kink scene. With eight years of experience in rope, play, and conscious kink, she has taught and performed at different venues and events around Europe and played a key role in opening House of Play, where she facilitates workshops, rituals, and play spaces. Her teaching focuses on consent, creativity, and exploring your own flavour in play – always with a sharp edge, a good dose of humor, and a mission to make kink both more conscious and less taboo. She is passionate about blending play and awareness in ways that feel both deep and lighthearted and will invite you to explore the edges of your comfort zone with curiosity and a smile.
Mathilde Alba (she/her)
is a Certified Trauma-Informed Tantric De-armouring Practitioner and teacher, a facilitator of movement and sensual embodiment, mentor, and alchemist of the body and soul. (And yes, you may have felt her sonic magic when she DJ’s known as ALBA)
Her work is rooted in the art of revealing – melting the armours that silence our truth and guiding others back into the raw, wise intelligence of their bodies. With a serpent’s grace and a grounded presence, Mathilde weaves sacredness with sass, depth with play, humor with realness, and sexuality with soul.
She invites you into spaces of deep inner alchemy – where transformation happens not through force, but through feeling. Her mission is to help you return to your body as temple, truth, and teacher – so you can live unapologetically, love more deeply, and walk your path with devotion and grace.