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DARE – Play Party


  • Shetlandsgade 3, 1st floor 2300 Copenhagen Denmark (map)

Step into a night of courage, curiosity, and co-creation.

DARE is an exploration of what it means to be brave – not just in how you show yourself, but in how you meet, listen, and contribute to the space.

To dare might mean to show up at all – saying yes to something new.
It might mean letting yourself be seen in your softness, or showing the power you usually hide.
It might be daring to slow down, to receive without performing, to give without expectation.
To let go of control, expectations, and trust that the night will unfold – together.

At this play party, we wish to explore what it means to not only show up for your own pleasure, but to stay open and attentive to the shared experience – daring to sense what the night, the space, and the people around you are calling for.

The evening begins with a ceremony designed to help you land in your body and attune to the collective rhythm and create awareness of the space we share. From there, the night opens – for dance, exploration, and the kind of encounters that happen when we dare to show up in new ways, being seen in a new light and focus on our own contribution and co-creation of the space and what it needs.

The Connection Corner offers a lightly facilitated space after the ceremony – to feel, to breathe, to meet others – maybe even through a game of truth or dare! Later it transforms into a smaller play space, perfect for intimate exploration.

The main play space opens for embodied expression, creative experimentation, and shared pleasure. Safer Space Angels are present throughout to support the collective experience of the space. The feeling of safety in a space is also co-created, so please reach out to the Angels if something in the space is off.

Need a break? Float into the cuddle zone, sip something sparkling at the bar, or let yourself move on the dance floor in the hands of our juicy DJ.

WHO IS IT FOR

For all genders, bodies, and levels of experience – especially for those who want to explore courage not just as boldness, but as presence, generosity, and trust. For those who come not only to receive, but also to give to the space – through energy, awareness, and care.

Come solo, with a partner/s, or with friends – what matters is that you bring curiosity, respect, and an open heart.

WHAT TO BRING

  • A towel or sarong to put under you for play (mandatory)

  • Any toys or props you’d like to use

  • A sense of adventure and care for the collective experience

  • A willingness to listen, give, and let go

WHAT TO WEAR

Dresscode: Daring & Playful – express what courage looks like for you.

It can be bold, sensual, ritualistic, soft, or quietly powerful. Think anything: mesh, fishnet, sequins, interesting patterns, neon colours, chains, leather, harnesses, feathers, lace, lingerie, latex, fun or ironic, sexy and sultry – play around with your expression and reveal your personality.

No streetwear or work clothes (i.e. jeans, ordinary t-shirts, regular workout clothes etc). No shoes indoors.

EVENING PROGRAM

  • 19:30–20:00: Arrive, land, and change if needed

  • 20:00–20:30: optional connection warm-up or relax in the lounge

  • 20:20: Doors close – no entry after this.

  • 20:30–21:30: Opening ceremony

  • 21:30–01:15: Free play, dance, and facilitated meetings in the Connection Corner

  • 01:15–01:30: Closing circle

CODE OF CONDUCT

Consent is the foundation of our play.

  • Ensure enthusiastic participation in every interaction.

  • Respect intimacy bubbles – no staring or unsolicited approach.

  • Don’t assume gender, sexuality, or desires.

  • Stay aware of your own presence and how it impacts the space.

Read the full Code of Conduct here.

THE BAR

A sober bar serving sparkling, spicy, and juicy non-alcoholic delights (MobilePay only).

TICKETS

  • Members: 240 DKK

  • Non-members: 300 DKK

Buy your ticket

CO-CREATE WITH US

This night exists because people dare to give their energy, time, and heart to it.
Join our volunteer crew to help shape the vibe from within – one of the most magical ways to experience House of Play.

Use discount codes as per below according to which role speaks to you:

  • “DareSetup” – Arrive at 16:00 to assist with setup and decoration (2 hours) and help out during the party (e.g. bar or runner shift) (1.5 hours).

  • “DareWelcome&Goodbye” – Arrive at 18:00 to assist with the finishing touches & welcoming the guests (2 hours), and help with the cleanup after the party (1 hour).

  • “DareCleanUp” – Assist during the party  (e.g. bar or runner shift) (1.5 hours) and clean up after the party (approx. 1 hour).

Shift plans will be sent out the week leading up to the party.

LEVEL & CHILIES

Level: All levels welcome

🌶🌶🌶🌶 Daringly spicy
Read about our chili-system here.

Come to feel.
Come to listen.
Come to give.
Come to DARE, darling.

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